Clear Sight

Hey loves! Hope you’re having a great day today! I am loving this dress from New York and Company!! My husband and I had so much fun shooting this dress and with the free people glasses it looks a bit futuristic.

The term futuristic fits this look very well, because this past week my husband and I sat down to revalue out marriage vision. We usually do a vision retreat at the end of each year where we cast vision on every area of our lives. By writing down our goals and praying over them we’ve seen many of our dreams come to fruition. Butt, for some reason we didn’t take the time to really dig last year and realized that this year could have been waaaaay better if we had a clear vision. So we decided to start early this year. It’s only been a week since we sat down to work on our goals and we’ve already seen things turn around quickly for us! There’s a scripture in the bible that says without a vision people perish. We’ve seen our lives with vision and without and I’ve gotta tell I much rather prefer with! What about you?

Outfit deets: This dress is super comfortable and flattering and it’s a part of the Eva Mendes collection. If you haven’t checked it out you should! Necklace and shoes from Cato.


5 Things You Should Know about Human-Trafficking in STL and How you can help now:)

  1.  That it exists  A lot of times when we hear the word trafficking we think of places overseas and yes that’s what I thought as well until I learned that there are over 300,00  child victims in the U.S. alone.  I then didn’t think it was so close to home until I read that St. Louis is in the top 20 cities where trafficking takes place.  We are number 17 to be exact!  There’s a highway called highway  35 that runs through St. Louis and you can virtually get to any state from it which makes it easier for these children to continuously be shuffled around so that no one finds them.   The average age of entry into this sick industry is 13 however, the earliest reported victim in St. Louis was in the second grade and the earliest reported victim ever was 2 years old ;-(.
  2. What their life is like  Sex-trafficking is defined as a “commercial sex act induced by force, fraud, or coercion, or in which the person induced to perform such an act has not attained 18 years of age.”  Their life is pretty much hell.  In order to groom these victims they make them watch hours of pornography as well as dance in strip clubs.  When they are ready, victims have reported having to  service up to 40 clients a day.
  3. Know the signs  Teachers you may have a victim in your class whose parents sell them on the weekends for drug money.  Here are some of the signs, but for a complete list visit here.   Social Interaction:
    • Inability to speak to individual alone
    • When addressed, answers seem scripted and rehearsed
    • Inconsistencies when describing or recounting events
    • Unable or unwilling to give local address of or information about parent or guardian
    • Refers to sexual situations beyond their age level or maturity
    • Avoids eye contact

    Physical Signs:

    • Signs of physical and/or sexual abuse, physical restraint, confinement or torture (may be reluctant to explain)
    • Untreated illnesses or infections, especially STDs
    • Appears malnourished
    • Lacks healthcare and/or dental care
    • Tattoos/branding on neck, lower back
    • Always wears same clothes regardless of weather or situation
  4. There’s help for victims  Thank God that there are people in this world dedicating their lives to rescuing and restoring victims of sex-trafficking and we have a wonderful organization right here in St. Louis, MO called The Covering House.  The Covering House is a place where victims can seek refuge, transitional housing, therapy, prevention and out-client services.
  5. How you can help  There are a number of ways that you can help.  The Covering House is a great place to start.  Whether donating money, time, or talent, they can definitely use your help.  If this issue pricks your heart like it does mine, take a look at their website and see where you fit in.  One of their biggest fundraisers is coming up called the Race For Refuge on September 5th at Tower Grove Park.  Kenny and I will be there and we hope to see you too!

My husband and I are also doing a Beauty Drive.  The Covering House has this beautiful home in an undisclosed location where victims can have a safe place to rehabilitate.  They are in need of African American Hair products such as, shampoo, conditioner and styling products.   We have two drop off locations one at a Cosecha Coffee  7360 Manchester Rd. in Maplewood and in St. Ann ALISA’s TKO Barber and Beauty Salon 9774 St. Charles Rock Road.   We are collecting these products now through Saturday, Septmber 12th. Small acts like this are  a way to restore these girls beauty inside and out.  Show them that love is dope!

Beauty Drive

Race for Refuge L

Back to School without Breaking the Budget!

Hello Mamas!

Well summer is quickly coming to an end and your kids are probably dreading leaving summer vacation for desks, teachers and homework, but your probably dreading the beginning of the school year for a different reason and that reason is……BACK TO SCHOOL SHOPPING! My baby isn’t in school yet, but I can remember as a student and as a teacher  how stressful back to school shopping can be.  You want to keep up with the trends but don’t want to break the bank.  Have you thought about thrifting??? If not, on average thrifting can save you 70-90% on your child’s back to school budget. I totally enjoyed my segment on Fox 2 and had the best models!  I am giving away 2 $25.00 gift card to Savers to get your back to school shopping on! They have just opened up a new location in St. Charles and I can attest that you will discover some great finds!

New Savers thrift store opens in St. Charles

Click below to Enter “I’d Rather Be Thrifting” $25.00 giveaway.  There will be 2 winners!!

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